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Kelly's avatar

Is it a good thing that men and women seem to hate each other? No. But, to be blunt, it seems like the inevitable consequence in a patriarchal world that has oppressed women for centuries. I mean, this is the first generation where women have not faced massive economic and social backlash for decentering men and expressing their rage. Are we really surprised at women's reaction? Really? *Especially* considering the fall of Roe v Wade in the US? Women not liking men results in the girlies complaining online in sometimes angry, sometimes funny Tiktoks. Men not liking women results in a spike of men beating their pregnant girlfriends to death. What gender war? There is a war on women and femme-presenting people, but there is no war on men. There is female oppression and the very rational reaction to it.

"We are supposed to like each other." Yes, of course. But I don't expect any woman to apologize, to tone it down, or to swallow her anger at the boot on her neck. Remove the boot, and the culture will change.

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Dowsingrods's avatar

Thank you for stating the obvious. What's most frustrating about this to me is that a man even gesturing to this dynamic among women online (read: most "normie" spaces on the internet/social media) usually results in severe backlash. You can't acknowledge the reductive statements as reductive, the contempt as contempt, or the double standards as double standards without being thoroughly excoriated for daring to criticize the behavior of women.

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