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Christopher Davidson's avatar

I am not sure that women and men always misunderstand each other. I would tend to think that men are more likely to misunderstand themselves and their confusion is reflected in their treatment of women.

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Cynthia W. Gentry's avatar

Great post. Very thought-provoking. It actually takes me down memory lane. In 2006 my book What Men Really Want in Bed came out. It was based on a very unscientific online survey, but it garnered a lot of interest, and I still get (very small) royalties from it. There were some surprises in the survey results: a little more than 50% of the respondents said they had faked an orgasm. And one of the most common responses was that men wanted women to communicate with them about what they want; nobody wants to mind-read. In 2010 I published a sequel, What Women Really Want in Bed. It didn't sell as well--make of that what you will. Congratulations on the new gig! Looking forward to reading more of your work.

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