this entire discourse is particularly frustrating. to me, it's the perfect example of why more people should 1) stop oversharing online 2) stop caring about relationships they have no stakes in and 3) stop being so terminally online in general.
i've thought that at this point, social media has been a net negative for society for years now and stuff like this just confirms it for me. i also think this has a lot to do with what you've mentioned before about the fear of vulnerability and the fear people have of appearing cringy and/or earnest in this world of detached irony.
i've also noticed that often these days people are often pushed into being single as a form of "empowerment" when being strong and independent and being in a relationship aren't mutually exclusive. i think that also has a lot to do with what you're talking about
๐๐ฏ ๐ข ๐ต๐ช๐ฎ๐ฆ ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐ธ๐ฆโ๐ณ๐ฆ ๐ค๐ช๐ณ๐ค๐ญ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ข๐ณ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ฅ๐ช๐ด๐ค๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ๐ด๐ฆ ๐ข๐ฃ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ต ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ ๐ฉ๐ข๐ท๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ข ๐ฃ๐ฐ๐บ๐ง๐ณ๐ช๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ช๐ด โ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ฃ๐ข๐ณ๐ณ๐ข๐ด๐ด๐ช๐ฏ๐จ,โ
this entire discourse is particularly frustrating. to me, it's the perfect example of why more people should 1) stop oversharing online 2) stop caring about relationships they have no stakes in and 3) stop being so terminally online in general.
i've thought that at this point, social media has been a net negative for society for years now and stuff like this just confirms it for me. i also think this has a lot to do with what you've mentioned before about the fear of vulnerability and the fear people have of appearing cringy and/or earnest in this world of detached irony.
i've also noticed that often these days people are often pushed into being single as a form of "empowerment" when being strong and independent and being in a relationship aren't mutually exclusive. i think that also has a lot to do with what you're talking about